I have been watching several TV shows about people who get married and don’t know one another. The more I watch, the dumber people seem to be. I am not saying that it couldn’t be a good thing for some couples but I have yet to see a relationship last on one of those shows. People are so worried about making sure that they have someone that they are putting themselves through hell to get back nothing in return. It’s really sad and hard to watch at times. I am glad that I have Derek and we met and fell in love naturally instead of it being a forced union. I believe that if you are meant to be with someone you will eventually be lead to each other, not by force but just naturally being who you are and where you are.